Response to Lyndsey:
Thanks for your detailed thoughts. I agree with a lot of what you said.
You said: âYour bill is more likely to pass if you arenât throwing tax dollars at problems, because people donât want to fund problems. We already financially incentivize foster care and adoption, and the result is a disaster.â
To be clear, this proposal does not pay people to choose adoption and has nothing to do with foster care.
I agree that the cost to adopt a child is super-high. Regardless, for every healthy baby born there are lots of willing, loving families on a waitlist seeking to adopt. In fact, even for babies with disabilities, such as Down Syndrome, there are still plenty of families available willing to adopt. On the other hand, there is not as many families willing to adopt disabled babies, as they are to adopt healthy babies. This could pose an issue for all pro-life states which do not allow abortion exceptions for Down Syndrome. We should seek ways to decrease the cost of adoption, but ESPECIALLY for the adoption and healthcare of disabled children. This would give more women the confidence to choose life for their child, would allow more choices.
Back to the other hand, while the funding I propose would be embraced by pro-life leadership, itâs not the most crucial part of my proposal. Federal legislators are free to discuss all of these provisions with their constituents and decide amongst themselves which ones they will support and how it would be worded. The provisions from this proposal would have to be broken up in several stand-alone bills anyway.
You said: âEveryone should be aware, that when a person chooses to have sexual intercourse with someone, there is a chance of pregnancy, because birth control does not always prevent pregnancy.â
Agreed, 100%! Too many people disconnect the primary function of sex and think they have some right to irresponsible sex. If we could ram that simple concept you said into every young personâs head, we could solve a lot of problems. It is irresponsible to participate in the reproductive process (sex) and play with life, if youâre unwilling to ensure that the child you created will be taken cared of.
You said, âI donât think people realize how traumatizing abortion can be⌠I have heard rape victims say their abortion was worse than their rape..â
Again, agreed, 100%! It is for this reason that I recommend a high school awareness and a 48 month pre-abortion counseling to teach EVERYONE about fetal development, what abortion procedures are like, the psychological/physical risks, the harms of all forms of coercion (including abortion and sexual coercion), and all forms of exploitation and abuse.
This proposal would instill a value for life, and respect for womenâs bodies, well before pregnancy. It does not mandate abortion for rape victims and imply that itâs their best option.
Letâs also keep in mind that thousands of babies are already being aborted, INCLUDING IN PRO-LIFE STATES BECAUSE OF MAIL-ORDER ABORTION PILLS, and only 0.5% of those are via rape/incest, and we should fight to save as many lives as possible.
BTW, I explained my rational about my support of a rape/incest exception, in a previous response to someone else who also said that the exception punishes a child. Here was my detailed response:
RIGHT TO MATERNAL/FETAL HEALTHCARE & EDUCATION to stabilize the abortion issue - #434 by AshleyLuna
Thank you for your thoughtful consideration.