Standard child support!

The current child support system often lacks the standardization and fairness necessary to serve the best interests of all families, particularly those involving non-custodial parents. In many states, the absence of clear guidelines for shared custody arrangements—especially when parents have equal (50/50) custody—creates significant disparities. Judges frequently have the discretion to make their own determinations, which can lead to inconsistent and often unfair outcomes.

Many fathers desire to be more involved in their children’s lives, seeking custody arrangements that reflect their commitment and capability as parents. Unfortunately, outdated laws and policies frequently hinder this access, making it a struggle for many dads to secure equitable parenting time. While mothers can also face challenges in custody arrangements, it is widely acknowledged that mothers tend to receive primary custody in most cases, even when it may not be warranted.

There is a pressing need for reform in child support and custody laws to ensure that they are fair, consistent, and reflective of the realities of modern parenting. Establishing standardized guidelines that support shared parenting can help create a more equitable system for all involved.

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I’d like to add to that. Fathers should be able to request a blood test no matter how long it’s been since the children were born, and the court should grant the request just as they would if the child were younger. Also, mothers shouldn’t be the only ones that get a free lawyer to accompany them to child support court. Fathers often have to spend 10 K at least.

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I would like ti add that a mandatory psychological evaluation of both parents should be required before primary custody is set. Not all parents are mentally stable enough to care for a child 24/7.

Agreed!! My ex was fighting to have his son more and they dinged him with child support that was as much as his mortgage. There is absolutely no way in hell it costs that much for 1 child and he had him in total about 1/4 a month even though he wanted much more. He went into debt fighting for his own child and continued to go into debt because he could not afford necessities with the expenses he had. That was sad to see and I see it happening more and more.

The money taken from the secondary parent needs to be mandated for usage for the child only and should be priced accordingly.

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