Ideas for reducing the need for abortions

I agree with a lot of what you said. A woman can have an abortion and kill a baby for free, but can’t get her tubes tied. There’s more money to be made from parts that you can’t get with the latter.

Society/music/entertainment and the sexualization of women and children needs to stop. Porn needs to stop cuz that just feeds the sex machine and teaches nothing about love and real intimacy, so more girls and women getting pregnant. We have zero morals and modesty doesn’t even exist anymore. Women want a good man, but they’re not acting like the good ladies that the good men want. So the men follow the leader holding the carrot and turn into scum, cuz they don’t have to work for it anymore. Why would they? Women are just giving it away!

It’s a cycle of ignorance without raising the bar (other than the neon lights to bring them together). Adults can do a number of things to prevent/refrain from the actual act of making a child. It’s not difficult. We live in a world where people don’t want to take responsibility for their own actions, so they use abortion as birth control. There’s nothing more selfish than that. Whenever a woman wants an abortion, she needs to watch what actually happens to that innocent life, before doing so.

Women’s health, ha! Yea cuz killing babies in your womb is great for your overall health and mental well being, said no one ever. Here’s a thought, you have a date, but don’t want to get preggers, then don’t get all cleaned up down there, and you’ll think twice about giving him access. Oh but wait, you’re gonna drink and then you can blame it on the alcohol. If it’s not one excuse, it’s another. Everyone wants to play stupid games and win stupid prizes and expect everyone else to pay for it.

Keep your legs closed, it’s not complicated. If women would have more respect for themselves, and stop letting society / entertainment show them how they should be, all of this insanity would go away all on it’s own.

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Men tend to not like the thought of having their penis ‘violated’ as my Husband’s first thought was. It took him almost a year to listen to the doctor. We had four children and a vasectomy is done in a doctor’s office and as my Husband said afterwards, it was the thought of it that ‘hurt’ and not the procedure. A hysterectomy requires anesthesia and searching around inside, very invasive. A vasectomy can be reversed according to his doctor.

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I have two separate proposals that actually address a lot of your thoughts here.

Would you please consider them?

Here’s my main one. FYI - the very first paragraph summarizes the whole idea, and the actual content of my proposal comes after a few disclaimer paragraphs/my MAHA letter: RIGHT TO MATERNAL/FETAL HEALTHCARE & EDUCATION to stabilize the abortion issue

Here’s my other one. This one’s probably too liberal, but I’m just throwing this out there because I truly believe in it: Federal Paid Maternal Leave, Unpaid Intermittent leave & College flexibility

Can we put a lifetime limit on abortions allowed (if paid by govt) ? Like insurance puts lifetime maxes on certain benefits ? I’m not sure where the line is for abortions that are elective in gestational age. That’s a very grey area. Personally I wouldn’t have one at all but I believe a woman needs more than 6 weeks to find out , think about her options and obtain a doctors appoint if she so chooses . But this is not something that should be abused.

I get tired of the excuse of rape and incest to legalize and promote abortions, especially full term. The morning after pill takes those off the table. Women who kill babies because the don’t want their careers ruined, or their man dumped them, or they don’t want to feed another child, or they don’t want their figures ruined are narcissistic, self-centered murderers.

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Adoptions should be much easier to process. The problem is, again, government. Hello, they’re here and they’re here to help, right? All the government has done is make adoptions even more difficult.

Get government out of the business of regulating adoptions and the agencies trying so desparately to make the connections.

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Regardless of why or how unwanted pregnancies do sadly happen. Id like to see more research into transplanting embryos or fetus Instead of destroying them. Pass them on to people who can’t conceive on their own. If im not mistaken an embryo can be frozen as well but i have no idea what limitations there are in that. Don’t destroy-Relocate

I agree. We need to reduce the amount of abortions in this country. We need to teach people to value life. I believe if we did we would have less murders and gun violence. You take a look at a country like Nicaragua where abortion is 100% illegal, their violent crime rate is super low despite poverty being so widespread. Whereas in this country we hear about somebody shooting somebody just because they didn’t want mustard on their sandwich or somebody pulled into the wrong driveway.
Another bad thing about abortion is it negatively affects social security. Because in order for social security to work you need to have enough young people paying into the system as the older population retires. From what they are saying social security will not have enough funds to operate in 2033. People currently receiving social security will only get 80% of their usual payment and people not yet drawing social security won’t get anything. So we should move more towards having adoption centers.

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I’d love to see adoptions become easier, but there if they become too easy then we DO have to face the reality of adoption becoming a means for trafficking and child abuse. I don’t know where the sweet spot lies in terms of how easy is too easy, but it breaks my heart to think that American babies are being killed in the womb while Americans travel overseas to adopt.

Any state that allows adoptions should be required to adopt and apply capital punishment for serious offenses and pedofilia.

Most don’t realize a woman can get pregnant only 72 hours a month/her fertile time. Condoms break all the time; pregnancy only happens when she is fertile.

A woman has the choice to have sex out of marriage; the consequences/purpose is to have a baby! When she finds she is pregnant, she “changes her choice” to kill the very child that might save her life. God is watching; He allowed the conception. And remember, I’m 82 and mother said. “Why buy the cow when you get the milk free.”

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I cannot support the destruction of human life for the actions and behavior of others.

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Huh?

A life is a life. Any new spark of life ought to be allowed to live. Rape or not it is the life of a child.
NO ABORTION PILLS!!

You have some wonderful ideas! I’m thinking along the lines of money talks - How about a tax incentive that would not only reduce the amount of unwanted pregnancies (thus reducing the number of abortions), but would also provide financial help to adoptive parents AND put a significant dent in the revenue Planned Parenthood makes from providing abortions. This can be done without criminalizing abortion, while providing incentives for young girls and women to not get pregnant until they are married or older and able to take on the responsibility of raising children. Nobody would be forced into anything, and everybody wins – except for Planned Parenthood, whose demise would be a natural consequence of the results. Bear with me, I’ve never done anything like this before – God just put it on my heart a few years back and out the words came.

A tax incentive for every person in the form of a credit of a set amount each year.
Every person both male and female gets the same amount.
The credit starts at birth until age 26. I chose birth as the onset of the credit because there’s no way to pin down a specific age that a child can become pregnant or impregnate a girl. I chose 26 as the ending age because many experts claim 26 as the age our brains generally reach full maturity. These are just loose guidelines.
The money would go into a special account only accessible by the account owner at age 26 if they have not been pregnant or impregnated someone.
If the “contract” is broken, there would still be an incentive to give birth and put the child up for adoption if the parent doesn’t want to raise it. Half the money in each of the birth parents’ accounts would be retained by the birth parents, while the other half would go to help the adoptive parents with adoption expenses.

Paternity tests would be required unless the alleged father willingly accepts responsibility and signs the birth certificate. If the paternity test comes back identifying him as the father, the money in his special account would go towards the fees for the paternity test. If he is not the father, the female making the claim would be responsible for payment for the paternity test, with the money coming out of her special account. If the birth mother chooses to have the child and keep it, what’s left in the father’s account would go toward unpaid hospital bills (with insurance paying first; although Medicaid would always be the last form of payment as to save taxpayers money). As well would the funds in the mother’s account. If the birth mother gives the child up for adoption, the remaining funds in the birth father’s account would be split 50/50 with half going to the adoptive family and half he gets to keep, just as the birth mother.

The account could be designated to pay for birth control (pills, condoms, etc)., but there would have to be a way to designate that this is the only expense covered, until they are able to withdraw at age 26. Failure of contraceptives would not nullify this “contract.”

Funds cannot be spent at any clinic, office, or hospital or with any doctor who performs abortions. This is due to the ease of which records could be manipulated to show that birth control was being paid for when in fact it was an abortion. It cannot be spent on Plan B.

Males can cash out their account at age 26 if there are no outstanding paternity suits against them. There would obviously have to be procedures in place for in the event of a woman accusing paternity when it turns out the accused is not the father.

Exceptions: married couples younger than age 26 who do not get pregnant until after they are married would be able to collect on their account at the birth of their child.

People wishing to take part in this would need to have a unique identification number that would be used to retain anonymity but also be used to track abortions. Abortion providers would be mandated to report all abortions using this identification number. This way we have a way of ensuring the program works. Also for reporting pregnancies, which will be helpful in getting a head start on placing newborns with adoptive families.

At age 26, whether single or married, if a person has NOT had an abortion (or if they did not impregnate a female who carried a child to term or had an abortion) – the money in the account can be cashed and spent in whatever way the person sees fit. It would be a great starter fund for a wedding or a vacation or to put back for college or future children or…use to help offset adoption fees if the couple wants to adopt.

Good thoughts, too.

Got me thinking about how the various state governments and agencies can smooth things to make adoption easier. Is there a national law possible to help standardize? Can Trump put something in an Executive Order?

Good thoughts here. Remove the profits made with the body parts and make women aware the products of conceptions are used in medicine, food flavorings, or other crazy experiments making people richer except the woman. Your body, your product. If the abortion is elective then you either pay for a burial or the products that were deemed of no value to you continues to make richer those that recognize the value.

Planning on being a parent with the most viable eggs and sperm is ideal. Abortion should not be used as a birth control. We need to get back to the idea of dating to marry and marry to have a family. The milk from the cow is special because of the cow, not the fancy packaging of it.

Our loving pets have a surgical procedure performed to prevent unwanted pregnancies whether they want it or not. It is called getting fixed.Unlike our pets, humans can elect to be ‘fixed’ and be responsible for the actions that cause the unwanted pregnancies. Be responsible for your own health and well-being and fix the situation yourself. The female cat does not get a choice most times of getting pregnant. The human female has options as does the human male.

Remove abortion as an option for controlling birth except for the 4% rare and extreme cases. Women and men consider it an option to abort if there is an unwanted pregnancy. We can not remove this option without supplying an easier option.