I wrote a formal policy proposal to help address this. I suffered the stillbirth of my son too. I hope you will consider voting for it to help its place in the algorithm. It’s not complete medical debt forgiveness like you are proposing but I think it’s a really good place to start and get the conversation going 
https://forum.policiesforpeople.com/t/tax-credit-for-stillborn-children-judahs-act/3637?u=leahyork